Monday, August 11, 2008

"Laugh as much as you breath, love as long as you live.."


My perception over life has always been somewhat delightful. Although there are much more sulking from myself or the other, it is always seen as an ideal way of modification. Hahha! That is what I was told. Nothing wrong... It’s just I guess, I need a room for myself. I’ve been into this relationship for about 7 months and its getting serious than ever!

At some point in our lives, I believe it is great that we have a steady kind of relationship. It’s a wonderful thing when you finally have someone in your heart... The arguments, emotional and blaming could have been the worst part in a relationship, but the fact that it is inevitable it’s just like bearing a pain with a pain killer, but the pain isn’t totally gone. I’ll come and go just like a headache. The real pain happens when you can’t swallow the pills anymore.

The purpose of having a relationship is very simple, but to fulfil it is not. Until we realize that love is also about sacrificing your needs to someone, then only you can stand a relationship be it whatever challenges may comes.

When I first thinking that I need a room for myself, I was in a way thinking that I deserve to be selfish to have a break in a relationship for a while...spend sometimes alone... But just when I heard his voice over my cell phone, this morning, even this afternoon, I don’t think that having a space is the solution. Perhaps it’s true that one should need a space in a relationship for a while just to find the missing pieces or ‘the other half’ and patch things up. But in my case, my ‘other half’ is created for me. It can’t be separated. It’s already inside me. Just like the air I breath.

Laugh as much as I live, love as long as I breath. It's the other way round



 

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